Stay low...

Hmm...so here I start, yet another time , to start a new blog, hoping that at least this one will continue for a longer period than the last one. As far as what instigated me to again start jotting down whatever gibberish, haphazard or obscure thoughts of mine was an article in today's paper alongwith some other stuff that happend which made me feel that it is sometimes better to have a bolg as your companion when it comes to speaking and letting things out. So this brings me to the point where I would like to put forward a few points that I realised lately, the first one being the same as the title of this post.....staying low(godammit...m sounding like i'm in a gd).
After going through some odious incidents within a few days, I got a kindof feeling that its always better to stay low and as obscure as possible. Reason being, it makes you less vulnerable to certain situations and more importantly many people. One who is too outward or makes too much noise is bound to get into some kind of messy situation, and mostly without ever knowing it. But thats quite ironic because everyone wants to be in limelight and be known so there is basically a tradeoff and one has to make sure that one strikes a perfect deal, nearly perfect wont be a bad bet either. One thing I would like to mention here is that everything that is being said here is for the people who most of the times or even sometimes do tend to take seriously what is said to them by anyone. For the ones who dont give a fuck what others think about them, life's just too smooth.I guess here I should end my first point, hoping that I didnt sound too philosopical, but even if I did, thats the whole point of me being here, so either read along or quit coz ther's more from where all the stuff above came from.
Moving on, I will now get to the second point that I wanted to share...speaking less.Ya right, everyone knows that one should speak less and listen more and there are a million quotations wanting to make that point out of which half a million we all have listened to or read somewhere or the other but still I want to write a few of my thoughts on that. First of all and the worst part of it, people start taking you for granted if you start talking more to them, they start apprehending that one is too desperate to talk and just cant live without it, a feeling that makes them think that they are more important and sophisticated than the former ones. They start thinking that they are doing the other person a favour by listening to him. I am talking about the people that one mistakenly assumes to be his friend and starts thinking that he can confide stuff in that person and can speak out anything he wants. As far as the people who know you, it never matters what and how much you talk to them. The other point is that talking more kindof makes one dependent on talking as such. Then one always think of sharing stuff and thoughts with someone and if he manages to get a person I just described, then the only thought he will get after a while is...regret.So I gues that sums up all that I had to say, will throw in some more thoughts if I manage to find right word to put them into.
One important thing, please do not ask me about any specifics about this post. I will really appreciate that.